that one person

How do go about determining who the most important person in our lives is. Do we choose a certain parent or another family member? Why not someone outside the family or a family member who is not blood kin. Is it possible that someone else can be the most important person in your life other than the two people who created you? However, my belief is that two people do not actually create you. God does. We were there before we even came into the world as an infant. So where does that leave us? The most important person in your life should be god. The second could be anyone. What about yourself? You must first love yourself before you can really truly love someone else. Since my separation, I am truly learning to love myself. This allows me to start loving someone else. Anyone for that matter, I will have my down times, but I will not hate myself or fall back into an extreme low self-esteem pattern again. It is not healthy and I chose not to do it. So, back to the question at hand? Who should be the most important person in your life? Everyone wants to be, but that is just not going to happen. Therefore, to all who think they should be the most important person in someone’s life. Stop and evaluate the situation. You may never be the most important person in someone's life, but that does not mean that person does not love you dearly. We all have our heroes. Whether most people like them or not. It is life and the heart of every individual is different, so do the best you can to love that someone and I guarantee he/she will love you back just the same. It just may take some work.

Starting Over

I have decided to create a new blog for my new life. If there are some poems or writings that you would like to see on here from my old one, please tell me. I hope you enjoy.